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Friday, April 8, 2011
yoga bio
Monday, April 4, 2011
sigh no more
Friday, April 1, 2011
grey clouds
but the thing is, there are people - close to me and far away - who are really in the throws of suffering. and i think that when we stop and look around... take a moment to make a phone call, write a card or donate a buck (thoughtfully), it can help alleviate the suffering that comes from selfishness. selfish thoughts, words and actions ultimately act as a magnifying glass for our anguish.
don't get me wrong, now. i'm the first to admit that the night before last, i had a glass of wine in a jacuzi tub and indulged in a good cry. (and maybe i cried a little last night, too.) taking care of one's self is top priority - for how can you fulfill your duty if you're not operating at your capacity - simply because of neglect? that's not helping anyone. take a moment, smell the roses, get a mani/pedi. do what you gotta do.
my point is, to reach out and hug someone, whether it's physical or not, to take a moment out of my self-pitying nonsense, dramatically altered my point of view and shocked me out of my funk. what a perfect surprise. to listen, to empathize, to sympathize... these are the ways to recover from my loss.
to give love is to cultivate love. just something to marinate on for this lovely friday.
oh, and i'm wondering if it's any coincidence that the literal rain clouds have lifted? for the entire week, the sky has been black, rotating between threatening and storming - mirroring my emotions. today, the sun is out, the sky is peppered with fluffy white cotton and the air is fresh and light, having just been through a deep, spring cleaning. all is right.